“You stiff-necked and uncircumcised in heart and ears! You always resist the Holy Spirit; as your fathers did, so do you. Which of the prophets did your fathers not persecute? And they killed those who foretold the coming of the Just One, of whom you now have become the betrayers and murderers…”
Acts 7:51-52
What tremendous love is displayed in Stephen’s message above! Sadly, few today would view such words as loving. Stephen has been preaching for fifty verses, laboring to expose the false confidence of his accusers. He has taken them through Israel’s history, showing them they are making the same mistakes as their forefathers. I wonder if he looked on the crowd at this point and saw disinterest and boredom in their eyes. Was it clear to him that they weren’t really getting the point at all? Whatever the reason, in a burst of emotion in v. 51, he makes the message as plain as he possibly can, leaving them with no doubt regarding the point he’s making!
We know Stephen wasn’t motivated by hatred when he preached these words because a few minutes later, as they threw stones to murder him, he interceded on their behalf and begged God to forgive them (v. 60). Stephen’s bluntness was clearly an act of love! Sometimes, the most loving thing we can do is give a strong rebuke. If a car is barreling down on someone standing in the middle of the road, it is an act of love and mercy to scream, “Look out!” The tone may be harsh, but it’s warranted given the gravity of the situation.
There is no greater danger than to be in rebellion against God and abiding under His wrath because you’ve rejected His Son! The crowd may have been becoming complacent, but Stephen had a sense of urgency regarding their need. We see a similar pattern with Christ in Mat 23:13-30 as he exposes the sin of the religious elite of His day. Seven times He cries out, “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites!” He was the best friend they ever had because He told them the truth! We see the same love Stephen shows when Christ a few verses later laments, “O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, the one who kills the prophets and stones those who are sent to her! How often I wanted to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, but you were not willing!” (Mat 23:37)
This kind of love is increasingly rare in our day. It’s this love that prompted Paul to recommend that the Corinthians correct the adulterer among them by delivering, “such a one to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.” (1Co 5:5) If we will care for men’s souls as the Lord Jesus did, then we must also be willing to speak the truth in love even when we know our words will cut the hearers deeply. Remember Pro 27:6: “Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.”
Jamie