“And for their sakes I sanctify Myself, that they also may be sanctified by the truth.” Jn 17:19
Christ is our pattern in all things. His example as He lived among us was that He acted for our sakes, not for Himself. He is our Lord and Master, yet said “I am among you as the One who serves.” (Lk 22:27) He said in Jn 10:11: ““I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd gives His life for the sheep.” As we considered last week, the natural response of the people of God in acknowledgment of that truth is found in 1 Jn 3:16. “By this we know love, because He laid down His life for us. And we also ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.”
In continuing with our thought last week on the church as a spiritual mother to individual believers, we understand that good mothers are constantly sacrificing for their children’s sake. Sure, if they didn’t have anyone else to think about, they would perhaps involve themselves in other activities that would be more enjoyable; but the reality is that their children need them, and for their sakes, they restrain themselves from things that would not be best for their kids. That’s the type of love Paul was teaching us about in 1 Cor 10:23,24:
“All things are lawful for me, but not all things are helpful; all things are lawful for me, but not all things edify. Let no one seek his own, but each one the other’s well-being.”
In other words, if it’s not good for the body of Christ, no matter how much I might enjoy it, I’m going to leave it alone. In order to be a disciple of Christ who also makes disciples as Christ commanded in Mt 28:19, we must be disciplined (hey, that word sounds a lot like “disciple”…coincidence? I think not!) to not give ourselves to anything that might hinder others and to be busy about that which would benefit one another. This discipline goes so far that Paul calls it in 2 Cor 4:10, “carrying about in the body the dying of the Lord Jesus.” As uncomfortable and difficult as this sounds, this dying to self is necessary if the reward of v. 13 is to be reached: “So then death is working in us, but life in you.”
Of course, we only see v. 13 as a reward to our efforts IF we love as Christ loved–putting others ahead of ourselves. It is that same type of mothering nature that I’ve witnessed in my mother and grandmother. I’ve seen them time and time again labor in the kitchen preparing a big meal, and yet, though they were no doubt hungry themselves, they insisted on serving us first before they would eat. Do we want God to use us as spiritual mothers in birthing children into his kingdom? Then we must labor in this fashion, laying aside our lives “for their sakes.” When we see the fruit of such labor, just remember to give the glory where it’s due. “…neither he who plants is anything, nor he who waters, but God who gives the increase.” (1 Co 3:7) All glory to His name!
Jamie